Three years ago, I was 48 years old, very overweight, and in a dark place mentally. I thought wellness was something for other people. I am beginning a series today discussing some changes I was able to make and the tremendous difference it made in how I live my life today. The post can be found here https://accessibleaba.com/bestlifecollaborative/?p=658
Today is the celebration of National Jelly Bean Day, a holiday that is eclipsed each year by the better known and more relevant Earth Day. However, the scheduling of the occasion allows, at least most years, for the convenient purchase of jellybeans after Easter when they are half price. Groovycandies.com shared that 16 billion of them are produced for Easter each year, but no percentage was given regarding how many are actually eaten and how many are tossed after they are found stuck to fake grass in the bottom of baskets. I see tons of them for sale each year, but it seems there are always plenty leftover after the fact too. I’m guessing most who are splurging on candy for Easter are choosing chocolate (mmm, like Cadbury mini eggs) instead.
I have personally never been a huge fan of jelly beans, they just seem a little too sweet for me (although I manage to like gummy bears just fine). My opinion changed a bit once I tried Jelly Belly’s brand as I found the flavors were both unique (including some that taste like earwax, dead fish and dirty socks as part of the Harry Potter inspired Bean Boozled line) and more flavorful than others I have tried. Even though they aren’t my favorite candy, I felt I should reacquaint myself with them before writing this post, only in the interest of research of course. I tried the Krispy Kreme donut flavored ones, and as if jelly beans weren’t sweet enough on their own, these are boosted by the additional taste of a sugary glaze. Yum!
According to candystore.com, the most popular flavor of jelly bean is buttered popcorn. I suspect that it’s popularity is driven, at least in part, because the buttery and salty essence of popcorn adds a nice balance to the concentrated sweetness of the candy. The top five favorites also include licorice, cinnamon, watermelon, and cherry, in that order. One of the most fun things about the Jelly Belly brand is that they offer recommended flavor “recipes” and it’s fun to scroll the internet and see some of the wacky combos people have come up with. Spring break tastes like coconut, tangerine, pomegranate, and peach? Yeah, I can see that. Some of the recipes called for A&W cream soda beans. Cream soda? My favorite jelly beans when I was a kid, before flavors got so fancy, were the white ones and I liked those because I thought they tasted like vanilla. Maybe I should look for some cream soda Jelly Bellys at the half off sales this week? Might be a flavor worth celebrating!
I am die hard fan of the TV show This Is Us. During this season on the show, (spoiler alert) one of the main couples have been having some tough marital problems. It’s been especially upsetting as they seemed to be so strong, so in love with each other. I was sadly beginning to wonder if this would be the end of their relationship. On the season finale a few weeks ago, there is a scene where the couple’s oldest daughter tells her dad that when it comes to wives he won the lottery so whatever has come between them needs to be fixed. He took her advice, and luckily, I didn’t have to wait until the fall to learn that they do stay together, though I’m sure the writers will have other tear jerking plot lines ready for the new season.
Fortunately, my life has much less drama than this TV show, but those words were ones I could really relate to. When it comes to husbands, I won the lottery too. I won’t go into details here, but my childhood was pretty rough and I went through some bad romantic relationships when I was a young adult. However when I was 24, I was so incredibly blessed to meet my life prize, the man that I would later marry.
I’ve told him that if I saw our personality characteristics on paper or a dating website, I would never think of us as a good match. He was much more athletic and physical (at least before his health issues caught up to him) than I ever thought about being. I was the kid who was the last pick in gym class, not the star of the team. He’s eight years older than I am and got married for the first time when I was still in elementary school, so we really grew up in different decades. When he gets mad, it comes on quick, burns intensely, and dies out just as fast. It takes a lot more for me to get angry, but once I get there, I need to simmer for awhile. He pays a lot of attention to details and I am a big picture person, but in spite of all this, we work incredibly well as a couple.
Bryan and I talk about what we think makes our marriage so good and one thing we always come back to is that each of us feels lucky to have the other. We treasure one another and treat each other accordingly. After being together for almost 27 years, we both love spending time together. We make each other laugh, usually at the goofiest things, and I know when I’m with him I can completely be myself, flaws and all, and still be totally loved and accepted. He knows the same.
Saturday is Husband Appreciation Day. There are not enough words to express to him how thankful I am to have him as my partner in life. It’s even better than winning the lottery.
This is the last big week this year for bunnies so I am just hopping by to celebrate and share some of my favorites before they’re gone! First up, the rest of the cards I made this year…
I am sure going to miss seeing all these lovelies in my Instagram feed…
Happy National Pet Day!! This is a day established in 2005 to encourage people to adopt animals from shelters. I want to note that there also special days throughout the year celebrating individual types of pets too, including cats (in October), dogs and guinea pigs (both in August), and birds (in May). But in the US we spent over 70 billion dollars on our pets last year, so I’m betting that we can’t celebrate our fur babies (or feathered/scaled babies) too much.
The specific message today is such a good one. There are so many lost animals that are just looking for a forever family. We adopted our kitties from a local rescue group and they had been through so much before they ever reached our home. They were pretty scrawny, in spite of the care of their wonderful foster mother (she only had them for a few days). Both have now put on weight and have soft, beautiful coats. Our little Mia spent the first few days hiding under our couch and while she and Max are still pretty skittish when it comes to change, they have fallen into routines that includes lots of petting and cuddling. In the few short months we’ve had them they have already added so much happiness and laughter to our home
I like to think that pets are the gifts we give ourselves. WebMD cites how beneficial pets are to our health and that studies show they play key roles in easing stress and depression as well as improving fitness and blood pressure. They accept us in spite of our faults and will generally listen without judgment no matter how many times we’ve told the story.
So for National Pet Day, if you have the ability and inclination, I hope you will consider adding the joy of a shelter pet to your heart and home.
Today I am celebrating National Sibling Day by indulging in a little nostalgia. My brother and I are only two and a half years apart so we had many shared experiences to look back on. He’s not my only sibling, but the age difference between my sister and I is so great that we really didn’t share many “childhood” memories.
My brother and I were latchkey kids so we spent almost everyday after school watching TV. I think there was a time when I could recite each line of dialogue from every episode of The Brady Bunch. It was the same thing on Saturday mornings, a time when cartoons ruled on regular network TV. We rode our big wheels and then our bikes totally untethered and somehow managed to make it home unscathed. We walked to school together in some pretty frigid temperatures (we lived in a Chicago suburb at that time) and he was such a good sport about going back home to retrieve our often forgotten lunch money (thanks Joe!!).
On July 4, 1976, we told our mom we were going to watch the bicentennial parade from the end of the street. Yeah, that didn’t last long as we were lured several more blocks, wanting to catch a better look. We watched Star Wars and later The Breakfast Club in theaters as that was really the only option if we wanted to see a movie. We also have the same memories of growing up in a house (several of them, actually) before there was a microwave or color TV.
My brother was particularly easygoing which was not always a trait that worked in his favor (see above- who always went back for the lunch money?). Once, we were being watched by a neighborhood babysitter along with a couple of friends. She had some candy and my friend (another oldest sister) and I convinced her to let us have it, even though there wasn’t enough for everyone. Of course, our brothers showed up in the room before we could finish it. My brother asked us what we were eating and I answered the first thing I thought of- soap. He was game, so much so that he actually put some soap in his mouth before I confessed that I was actually eating the last of a giant sweet tart. Hmmm, I wonder if that’s why he pulled the head off my favorite Barbie doll and lost it?
Happy Sibling Day to all- especially to my siblings who had to deal a bossy older sister who wasn’t always nice about being the built in babysitter. You guys are great!!
When I set out to make some Easter cards this year, I knew I wanted them to feature bunnies. I think I’m pretty much an equal opportunity animal lover when it comes it crafting, but bunnies are just a notch higher on the cuteness meter. They look so soft and cuddly and then there’s the ears and the hopping- just so adorable. I stayed in a very chi-chi hotel for work a few years ago and the place was stunning with amazing views of the Pacific Ocean and amenities that exceeded anything I ever could have afforded on my own. However, my favorite part of the whole fancy place was the little brown bunnies hopping around the yard. I could’ve watched them all day long.
Once February 15th arrives, it’s easy to find rabbits in every incarnation imaginable- edible, inflated, illuminated- everything goes cottontail and with them comes the promise that warmer and longer days are coming soon. Yay! Another reason to celebrate bunnies! Yet, once their season of glory passes, they are relegated to the clearance bin even more quickly than last year’s jack o’ lanterns.
I adore the little critters, but have always categorized them a spring animal. For example, I can’t imagine featuring a card with a bunny scampering through the autumn leaves or sticking his head out of a pumpkin or stocking- it just doesn’t work. I thought I better get all my rabbit crafts done now before it gets hot and their moment passes. However, once I put these watercolor gingham cards together, I loved them so much I just had to find a way to enjoy them year round. This prompted me to plan a set of small framed prints using the same clip art and paper for my office at work. Something so precious should be enjoyed more than just once a year.
Digital paper sourced from: http://www.etsy.com/shop/AlyanaGrafica
Rabbit Clip art sourced from: http://www.etsy.com/shop/SmallHouseBigPony